Bose-Einstein Statistics and Collapse

In Bose-Einstein statistics, two identical bosons can be in one of the following three states with respect to some orthonormal single particle states $|Arangle$ and $|Brangle$:

(1) $|Arangle |Arangle$

(2) $|Brangle |Brangle$

(3) $1/sqrt{2}(|Arangle|Brangle + |Brangle|Arangle)$

Now, (3) is a linear superposition of two states, and we would never really observe this superposition state. If the system is measured, I suppose, (3) will collapse into either $|Arangle |Brangle$ or $|Brangle|Arangle$ with the probability of 1/2.

First, is this right? If it is right, what would be the observable for which $|Arangle |Brangle$ and $|Brangle|Arangle$ are both eigenstates? In other words, which observable is associated with the measurement that can collapse (3) into $|Arangle |Brangle$ or $|Brangle|Arangle$?

Secondly, and relatedly, it looks like $|Arangle |Brangle$ and $|Brangle|Arangle$ should not be allowed as possible physical states, for they are not permutation invariant. But it also looks like (3) should collapse into one of those states if measured. I’m confused. Please enlighten me. Thanks.