How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile "not asking forgiveness for his parents" and dua of 14:41?

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I was taught to recite [14:40-41] in my salah:

Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established." [14:41]

And the verse 9:113 says I cannot ask forgiveness for non-believers after they have passed away.

It is not for the Prophet and those who have believed to ask forgiveness for the polytheists, even if they were relatives, after it has become clear to them that they are companions of Hellfire.[9:113]

How can a person with non-muslim parents recite 14:41 in his salah or in general when it contradicts ayah 9:113 (the rule that he cannot ask forgiveness for dead non-muslims)?

UmH · Accepted Answer

A reconciliation is needed when there are two conflicting commands. The dua in salah is not obligatory, nor is it prescribed with only these words rather one is free to make any dua, some of the prescribed ones are listed here.
A person with non-muslim parents can make some other dua. Or they can make this dua but intend by ولوالدي not their immediate parents but some Muslim (grand) parents such as Adam and Eve, Noah etc. See Tafsir al-Qurtubi.

How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile "not asking forgiveness for his parents" and dua of 14:41?

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