Word for disposable cutlery etc preferably without using "disposable"

_{I think OP's edited question makes my answer appear odd. So, check out a better answer by Phil Sweet.}

Disposables — ODO

noun An article designed to be thrown away after use
"don’t buy disposables, such as cups and plates"

The specific meaning will be understood from context.

Plasticware — Dictionary

noun 1. Knives, forks, spoons, cups, etc., made of plastic
"a picnic hamper with plasticware for six."

and similarly, paperware, etc.

I don't know of a simpler term than Disposable cutlery — TFD

utensils, as knives, forks, and spoons, used for serving and eating food.

or disposable tableware — M-W

dishes, glasses, knives, forks, etc., that are used for serving and eating food at a table

Not one word, but how about disposable dinnerware and flatware or disposable dinnerware and cutlery?

From Merriam-Webster:

dinnerware: tableware other than flatware

flatware, cutlery: forks, spoons, and knives used for serving and eating food

Note: There doesn't appear to be a single word that covers both dinnerware and flatware, not to mention a single word that also includes the concept of disposability. Hence, it's not obvious one can do better than three words without inventing new words.

Note: I was wrong about there not being a single word that covers both dinnerware and flatware: tableware does the job. See @NVZ's answer: disposable tableware.

Party plates is a synonym for paper/plastic/disposable/unbreakable plates - you could therefore go for party tableware but that's a bit of a mouthfull so you could say party plates 'n' stuff.

Are you ready for the picnic? Who's bringing the party plates n stuff?

"Paper service" seems like it might have the right meaning, so I thought I'd mention it.

I'm not sure it's the best choice–actually, I learned of this word recently in chat when someone else asked what it meant, and I had to do some Googling to find out, so it might not be widely understood. However, it does avoid the term "disposable" so that may be why some catering services use the term: it could be considered a marketing euphemism, like "bath tissue" for "toilet paper."

Here are some examples of it being used:

Since the Student Union does not have paper service, you have the availability to take food out of the Student Union in the following: - Eco Clamshells will be available to take out food - Bring your own cup: up to 32 oz [...] (Meal Plans – Cincinnati Christian University)

A catering business contrasts it with "china service":

Flatware Options

Standard Paper Service – included in base menu price

• 10″ Chinet paper plate, black plastic utensils, paper napkins, paper coffee cups (Silver plastic utensils – add $0.25/person)

Disposable Imitation China – $3.50/person

• 10” disposable plastic plate, disposable plastic coffee cup, silver plastic utensils, cloth-like paper napkins

Full China Service – $6.00/person (max. 150 people)

• 10″ China plate, stainless silverware, China coffee cup and saucer, linen napkins

(MJ’s Market & Catering Terms & Conditions)

Another catering example:

Continental and Hot Breakfast Buffets include a draped buffet table and paper service. (Catering Manual - Eastern New Mexico University Roswell)

How about just plain old "Picnicware" It implies the nature of the stuff your talking about pretty clearly to most people, without reminding them about what happens to it afterwards "whether an actual picnic or not". A psychological parry is clearly what your after here. Its close to the mark for what your trying to describe.

"Disposable" "Throw-away" source: http://skoozeme.com/issues/dontbus.html

[edit] "single use" The term is used in Seattle's "compostables" law and California's proposed "no forced straws" law. I guess anything's "disposable" with a large enough landfill!

"Party" does not describe this because (unless one has no access to durable tableware or is just being cheap) the "partyware" would be durable tableware.

So there are a couple options for a phrase to describe disposable cutlery, without the word disposable.

One options is to call it a cutlery kit, this of course usually has multiple utensils, such as a fork, knife, spoon, napkin, and sometimes salt & pepper.

A second option is to call it plastic cutlery.

Here's a reference that refers to both of those options: https://www.restaurantsupplydrop.com/collections/utensils

I believe the word you are looking for is "Consumables".

It could depend on use too. This doesn't apply so much in the consumer sector, but for businesses, it would often be referred to as take-out supplies or to-go supplies and that's what it's often advertised as on websites that sell these supplies. You can see that on a few websites:

Branded take-out supplies exponentially elevate your brand and the investment in branded plastic cups will more than pay for itself. https://budgetbranders.com/products/custom-plastic-cups/

Declutter plastic silverware and other take out supplies. https://www.home-storage-solutions-101.com/declutter-plastic-cutlery-take-out-supplies.html