English Language & Usage Asked by lightawake on August 14, 2021
I had mistakenly thought that if you said a person was being ‘obtuse’ it meant that they were being deliberately unclear. I want to describe a frustrating exchange with someone from an organisation who was professional in their manner but deliberately avoiding direct answers to my questions, (because they seemed to have an agenda not to help me).
What is the word to describe a person that does that?
Disingenuous gets my vote:
- lacking in frankness, candor, or sincerity; falsely or hypocritically
Although evasive or deceptive may fit, depending on specific usage.
Answered by Upper_Case on August 14, 2021
I would say obtuse. The below is from OED.
Obtuse ADJECTIVE
Annoyingly insensitive or slow to understand: ‘he wondered if the doctor was being deliberately obtuse’
1.1 Difficult to understand, especially deliberately so: ‘some of the lyrics are a bit obtuse’
Answered by Jonathan Muse on August 14, 2021
From the ODO:
circumlocutory
ADJECTIVE
Using many words where fewer would do, especially in a deliberate attempt to be vague or evasive; long-winded. ‘he has a meandering, circumlocutory speaking style’
From Language Log:
... we find the expression in an episode of Yes Minister, in the mouth of a stunningly circumlocutory character:
Sir Humphrey: "Minister, I think there is something you perhaps ought to know."
Jim Hacker: "Yes Humphrey?"
Sir Humphrey: "The identity of the Official whose alleged responsibility for this hypothetical oversight has been the subject of recent discussion, is NOT shrouded in quite such impenetrable obscurity as certain previous disclosures may have led you to assume, but not to put too fine a point on it, the individual in question is, it may surprise you to learn, one whom your present interlocutor is in the habit of defining by means of the perpendicular pronoun."
Jim Hacker: "I beg your pardon?"
Sir Humphrey: "It was...I."
Answered by EleventhDoctor on August 14, 2021
disobliging - to refuse or neglect to oblige; act contrary to the desire or convenience of; fail to accommodate.
Answered by MikeJRamsey56 on August 14, 2021
perverse From the OED, perverse
Of a person, action, etc.: going or disposed to go against what is reasonable, logical, expected, or required; contrary, fickle, irrational.
My made-up example:
The agent gave me a lot of irrelevant information but perversely refused to answer my question, which I asked several times and in several ways.
perverse captures the sense that the OP had that "[they] seemed to have an agenda not to help me". Also the sense the OP had that they "deliberately" avoided answering. That is, they weren't stupid, they were perverse.
Example from the OED (same link as above):
1987 P. Farmer Away from Home (1988) 52 She just says, ‘So what?’ knowing she is being perverse, but not caring in the slightest.
Answered by ab2 on August 14, 2021
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