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What is the term for taking it out on someone even though you will be harmed by this too?

English Language & Usage Asked by EralpB on April 28, 2021

When you are so mad at someone that you make a bad decision, even though you will be harmed by it as well, in order to harm that person; is there a good term for this?

For example burning $100 because he owns $20 of it.

4 Answers

"Cutting off your nose to spite your face" comes close to what you are describing.

Correct answer by Oldcat on April 28, 2021

For a single word, you can consider spite, which means to go out of one's way to harm another for a perceived wrong.

In other words, it means to do something unnecessary (which means there is a cost) to harm another for what may be no legitimate reason at all.

An example is the spite fence. This is a fence that is put up for no other reason than to annoy a neighbor. It is generally done so at some cost to the one putting it up (for the material or at least the for labor).

Answered by Canis Lupus on April 28, 2021

A Pyrrhic victory. The Greek King Pyrrhus was ruined beating the Romans.

Answered by Jesmond Kid on April 28, 2021

If spite is not quite a good fit, then I would say "collateral damage".

This is when you inflict harm upon yourself in the attempt to attack your enemy.

Answered by David M on April 28, 2021

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