Is there a word for saying something in a nice way without saying it?

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So, you are walking all day with a friend, you feel tired, you don't want to say: "I'm tired, let's stop", but say: "Oh dear, we've walked a lot today".

A friend promised to meet you to go for the football match at 9pm. It's 9 and you don't say: "You forgot the match right?", but for example: "Enjoy your dinner".

What's the word to describe these situations? Not sarcasm, because that is in a negative scope. Can we call it "rhetoric"?

Example, if the friend answers: "Oh thanks mate" and he really forgot, you would want to say: "'Enjoy your dinner' was ______".

Bookeater · Answer

"Imply" may foot the bill.

Indicate the truth or existence of (something) by suggestion rather than explicit reference:
'salesmen who use jargon to imply superior knowledge'

Instead of being negative it suggests inevitability.
Reference:
http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/imply

Lawrence · Answer

Try diplomatic.

Diplomatic adjective
  1.1 Having or showing an ability to deal with people in a sensitive and tactful way
  - ODO

Here are more words contributed by @TheNate (thanks!):

thoughtful, kind - these relate more to the character of the person; and
tactful, gracious - these relate more to the choice words and manner of communicating them.

user343663 · Answer

Euphemism - a mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing.

Laura Di Pofi · Answer

I would say the first example is diplomatic and indirect...the second is sarcastic...
But I'm afraid this kind of perception  is also cultural...

Is there a word for saying something in a nice way without saying it?

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