English Language & Usage Asked by Willy on February 5, 2021
We can all agree that the reflexive pronoun in this sentence is necessary:
I bought drinks for myself.
However, I cannot seem to find a definitive answer regarding the following sentence:
I bought drinks for my sister and [me / myself].
While searching online for an answer, I came across a few guides that claim you should not use reflexive pronouns in compound objects yet proceed to give examples for which a reflexive pronoun would be inappropriate even if the object were not compound!
My guess is that a reflexive pronoun should be used, as not using one could cause ambiguity. Consider the following:
He bought drinks for his sister and himself.
Using him in place of himself here would cause ambiguity, would it not? However, I am still not sure whether reflexive pronouns are strictly necessary for similar constructions when the subject is you or I.
My short answer is that both are acceptable. The following attempts to justify this answer syntactically.
As an aside, let's note that you can say:
...which makes it clear that the reflexive is never strictly syntactically necessary. However, turning to the spirit of your question, I would say that both your options I bought drinks for my sister and [me / myself]:
The first point is self-evident, I believe. I would motivate the second point by analysing the two sentences differently:
Don't worry about all the brackets; the important thing to note is just that [my sister and me] is a single constituent in the first sentence, and so does not have a reflexive form. In the second sentence, [myself] is a single constituent, and so can replace [me] (or, strictly speaking, can realise the first-person singular) in the standard manner of reflexives. Note the ellipsis---I assume the underlying structure is something like
Having said all this, I would like to suggest another, completely different reason why the myself version is acceptable. This is that reflexive pronouns, at least in British English, are becoming an option to replace accusative pronouns (like me, you) in speech, possibly when mild emphasis is required:
To me this sounds horrible, but I hear it all the time, especially among London businesspeople. (I believe it is also traditional in some forms of Irish English, where it does not sound horrible to me!)
One can reject this particular use of the reflexive forms while recognising that it may be contributing to their greater prevalence in other constructions.
Answered by legatrix on February 5, 2021
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