How to define an internal link as parent in mymodule.links.menu.yml?

How do I create a menu link programmatically to a node that I can use as a parent for other links?

In MYMODULE.links.module, I defined some links for my navbar:

MYMODULE.parent-fruits:
  title: 'Fruits'
  url: internal:/fruits
  weight: 0
  menu_name: food
MYMODULE.fruits-apple:
  title: 'Apple'
  parent: MYMODULE.parent-fruits
  route_name: view.fruits.apple
  weight: 5
  menu_name: food
MYMODULE.parent-vegetables:
  route_name: view.vegetables.page-main
  weight: 10
  menu_name: food
MYMODULE.vegetables-asparagus:
  parent: MYMODULE.parent-vegetables
  title: 'Asparagus'
  url: internal:/admin/structure/taxonomy/manage/card_group_private/add
  weight: 5
  menu_name: food

In this case, I expect to have a menu that looks like this:

• Fruits (child-> Apple)
• Vegetables (child-> asparagus)

When I go to the parent page, the link to the child should appear in the navbar menu (the parent tree should be expanded).

But what I actually get is:

• Fruits (no children)
• Vegetables (child-> asparagus)

The problem is caused by defining the menu link with url instead of route_name. I know this because when I change the parent of fruits-apple to parent: MYMODULE.parent-vegetables, then I see Apple as a child of Vegetables.

When I remove parent from Apple, then it appears in the menu (without a parent), so I know the link is defined correctly.

I can also create the Fruits / Apple links in the menu UI, and those work correctly.

Regarding parent: the documentation says this:

Determining the parent menu_link name can be a little tricky at first.
If you know the path of the parent menu item, you would need to search
for it in all available *.routing.yml files (most text editors and
IDEs should allow you to search all files in a project) and find the
route name for that path. Then, you would need to search for the route
name in all available *.links.menu.yml files. The menu_link whose
route_name matches is your link. Alternatively, if you know which
module is defining the parent menu link (or one of the parent menu
link’s children), you can go straight to that module and perform your
search.

Since these are node links, I checked node.routing.yml in the core node module, but I couldn’t find the route to node pages.

So: how do I create a menu link programmatically to a node that I can use as a parent for other links?

/devel/routes

drupal debug:router

mymodule.node7:
  title: 'Node 7'
  route_name: 'entity.node.canonical'
  route_parameters: { node: '7' }