English Language & Usage Asked on April 4, 2021
This is a phrase I’ve heard used on several occasions by different people. I’m interested about what it’s origins are, and whether it should be considered rude.
Essentially it means "That’s tough luck!", but with an unapologetic undertone.
e.g.
Person A: Strawberry ice-cream? But I wanted chocolate.
Person B: Tough titty. That’s all they had.
Chambers Slang Dictionary dates it to the 1920s, and also records the variants hard titty, tough tiddy, tough tit, tough titties and tough tits. It is defined as ‘bad luck’ and shown to produce tough tits, toots, described, accurately enough, I would imagine, as ‘a phrase of dismissal’. A hardened nipple is, presumably, less likely to deliver the sustenance, or any other comfort, normally expected of it and so those, infants or others, who encounter such an anatomical feature might be thought unfortunate.
Correct answer by Barrie England on April 4, 2021
"Tough had meant hard luck since the early 1870s, with tough luck first being recorded in 1890, tough titty in 1929, and tough shit in 1946, though this last was probably in use much earlier but wasn't recorded until changes in attitudes and morality after World War II began to allow such terms in print."
From "Listening to America" by Stuart Berg Flexner (Simon and Schuster, New York, 1982).
Source: http://www.phrases.org.uk/bulletin_board/4/messages/1024.html
Answered by Ed Guiness on April 4, 2021
It's a short version of the phrase:
Tough titty said the kitty when the milk went dry.
Answered by Jelly on April 4, 2021
Hello tough tittie forumers. If you would allow me to offer my expertise, I think you will find that the accurate origin of 'Tough titties' in fact comes from following phrase, which was coined by Monsieur Bitty in the 1920s :
'Tough tittie said the pretty kitty wallowing in pity'.
Indeed, a fellow friend also informs me that there is another phrase which could equally be the genuine origin, although this is debatable (to the point where it has caused a ridge in our friendship):
'Tough titty said the old women on the subcommittee in Kansas city.'
Answered by Montonwon on April 4, 2021
There is more to it than that. The original was
Tough titty said the kitty when the milk went dry.
There are more lines to the jingle than just one. My uncle use to recite this with about 5 lines in it. It is about milking cows, nothing to do with women. When the milking is done, or if the cow has problems, that is what it is about. I was hoping someone would know the actual ditty.
Answered by brad on April 4, 2021
It re-emerged into the public domain, at least in Australia about 15 years ago when an interview with a sect leader (Orange people"?) on 60 minutes saw the female spokesperson state the phrase during an interview. Caused a minor stir at the time. Does anyone remember this?
Answered by Pete855217 on April 4, 2021
My grandmother used to use this expression when I was a kid. She was born in 1896 and probably picked it up in the 1920s or so. Fond memories as it wasn't very common.
Answered by Steve on April 4, 2021
tough luck--tough shit, stuff or tiddy (titty)
d. tough luck (colloquial, originally U.S.), hard luck, misfortune; esp. as an expression of (sometimes ironic) commiseration; also (chiefly U.S. slang) tough shit, stuff or tiddy (titty).
1912 Collier's 28 Sept. 19/1 ‘Tough luck, old top’, he muttered.
1932 Kansas City Times 14 Jan. 18 It may be Mr. Hoover's tough luck to be both renominated and re~elected.
1934 J. T. Farrell Calico Shoes 143 You have to take your chances, and if you can't swim, you sink. It's just your tough tiddy.
1944 in A. M. Taylor Lang. World War II 198 Beachhead chaplains are carrying a special ‘tough stuff’ ticket these days which they issue to guys with complaints about which nothing can be done.
1946 Amer. Speech 21 249 [Army vocabulary.] Tough shit, something which is unfortunate, but about which nothing can be done.
1958 S. A. Grau Hard Blue Sky ii. 89 ‘And the whole building near to going down with the next strong wind.’ ‘Tough titty, man.’
1971 ‘A. Burgess’ MF ii. 32 [I got] robbed and rumpled.—Tough titty she said with little sympathy.
1974 Black World Jan. 10/2 Is Mr. Gayle exasperated by the fact that I do not give clear-cut answers to these questions? Tough luck: I do not have them.
1976 New Yorker 1 Mar. 74/2 I'm awfully sorry to hear about your tough luck.
1978 J. Carroll Mortal Friends ii. v. 200 Tough shit, Lady! Morning wears to evening and hearts break.
From OED
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.49,0:03:26.45,Chn,,0,0,0,,是的 我很乐意去看看N{rEng}Yes, I'd like very much to visit the memory
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.58,0:03:27.78,Chn,,0,0,0,,你发明传送门枪的那段记忆N{rEng}of you inventing your portal gun.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.91,0:03:30.20,Chn,,0,0,0,,你给我的山芋很烫手啊N{rEng}Yeah. Well, tough titties.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.33,0:03:33.20,Chn,,0,0,0,,有比神经崩溃更烫手的山芋吗 RickN{rEng}There's no tougher titty than a psychotic break, Rick.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.33,0:03:37.25,Chn,,0,0,0,,好吧 那就要看是什么先崩溃了 我 还是 山芋N{rEng}Well, that depends on who breaks first -- me or the titty.
From Rick and Morty S03E01 The Rickshank Rickdemption
Answered by Robinson on April 4, 2021
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